–*We could have sent a singing telegram.
–*We could have made reservations at an upscale restaurant days in advance.
–*We could have bought our love ones sexy essential oils like sandalwood or jasmine.
–*We could have created a “coupon” for one extra sexy bath.
–*We could have cooked a surprise dinner of London broil garnished with rosemary and crushed garlic.
–*We could have written a special poem just for the occasion.
–* … bonus points for one that didn’t rhyme.
–*We could have taken him or her for a carriage ride around the park to create an extra sexy mood.
–*We could have lit some candles on wall sconces, turned off the lights and listened to sexy music by Barry White, Beth Orton or Bon Iver.
–*We could have found a sitter.
–*Or we could have just acknowledged that after 10 years of marriage, the pint of Ben & Jerry’s sufficed.
Beauty is Imperfection 
Nothing says it’s sexytime like Bon Iver